As you can tell, someone or something has triggered the annoyance button within me.. its days like this that I feel like running to the ocean and screaming my head off. Its horrible when people piss you off and yet feel no remorse for their mistake.
I LOVE YOU... what the hell does that word mean ? do you know.. well i think half the world doesn't seem to grasp the concept that this is a fucking serious word.. it s not a mere word that you just blurt out as and when you like..
Acc to wikipedia I LOVE YOU means : a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. ...
Strong affection of profound oneness.. how much more clear must it be made. People these days just rant the word out for fun. for eg : Honey, Im going to the grocery, would u like anything ??? Ok bye.. i love you .. mUah ".. or " Sweetie, Im going to the bar with friends, I love you .. bye "
dOES your love one.. really need to be reassured every 10 sec that you love him/her.. The answer is NOOOOOO ..
Saying I love in this manner is just the tip of the iceberg that contributes to my annoyance of society. Saying I love you .. to merely play with a girl/guy.. just to dump him/her in the next few months is the ultimate worse. You can play.. cheat.. flirt.. whatever you call it.. just DON'T SAY I FUCKING LOVE YOU...until ur bloody sure you do.
How many of us, see our parents saying I love you every 10 seconds of the day. Honestly, I have not seen that, yet i believe my parents know that their spouse loves them more than anything in the world.. and guess what, those marriages are still going 25 years down the track. While couples who so openly say I love you about 55 times a day..in 4 years you see them screaming and saying I hate you just as much in front of a judge. Tht's the irony of all this shit.. young farts don't seem to give 2 hoods about the word and what it means. As long as by saying it , they get to enjoy some form of benefit ( getting laid 100% of the time).. they'll say it.. DAMN..stop.. killing the meaning of the word.. stop it now before it's too late to save its profound oneness for our future generations .
Ok .. so there goes my rant about oversaying I love you... now there is a severe shortage of the word " SORRY " in today's world. According to UN, in the next 10 years to come, it may even disappear the face of the earth .. so rationing has began...Maybe the first thing we should teach our kids is to say " sorry WITH MEANING " before learning how to say mama , dada.. gugu.. gaga.
Civilians to politicians to celebrities to royalties all stay away from the word SORRY..
People make mistakes on a daily basis, yet remorsitude is never part of the mistake making process.. it s more like " mm yeah i made a mistake.. wont do it again. cheers mate" .. I mean seriously,. what the hell is that ?? Say sorry.. look into that person's eyes.. cry if you need too.. just show them some bloody remorse. Humans have this big fat ego that prevents them from saying sorry.. when they do , they feel helpless and low. They are not dominant nor powerful. Ppl say I LOVE YOU .. so easily coz they obtain some benefit out of that.. however, with sorry you don't. Most of the time, ppl cant be bothered to save their rships, hence just move right along to the next one.. SORRY IS EVADED YET AGAIN ! ..
So there it is.. oversaying.. undersaying.. dude where is the fucking balance ???
Wednesday, 16 April 2008
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It's so true, Steph. I wrote a similar entry on my blog except it's about the balance of appreciation and taking things for granted. These days, things spiral out of control when people start to lose their direction in life and not know how to balance things anymore. Sigh... i suppose some people just don't know what they want in their life. It's sad and frustrating that people don't understand these simple things in life.
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