So.. it s been a few days, eh ??
It has been LITERALLY the BUSIEST week ever. Assignments due all at once, debates etc etc.. but oh well Im looking foward to my 3 weeks @ The Children's ...gonnna be sooo fun !! Free Pediatric Pharmacopeia .. wohooo !!
Celebrated the dawn of a long weeked with my regular crew. aka Sam/Wen Li.. We discovered a beautiful little bar on Hardware Lane.. golden monkey.. awesome deco, and atmosphere but it sure does burst your budget. Nevertheless.. we went there for SOCIALISING... and guys.. we did socialise right ?? hehheheheh ..
The night continued one along of the Hardware's finest cafes VONS.. tiramisu.. oooo yummy.. steak.. even more yummier.. oh man I wish my family back home can enjoy this life that I have created for myself. I bet dad n mum would love to dine in these sorts of places. I truly can't wait to take my dad bar hoping.. and my mum restaurant hoping :).. good daughter or WHAT !!
Family is so important. I have not shared so many things with my family in a very long time. I feel in a certain way, they have failed to recognize me. In their eyes, im still the same 19 year old that left home. Unfortunately, that is not true. I have evolved so greatly in the past 4 years ( in a good way tht is :P ) I cant wait to share my life and experiences with them. I believe at the end of the day immediate family is what that counts. I come from and extremely close knit family... but guess what ??? A crack is streaking right up the middle. Oceans are separating us.. how much can internet or skype substitute for real life conversations.. Before I knew it, outsiders are trying to curb into our den and break us apart. I can already sense that happening... do I care ?
In a way.. yeah. I am defensive over my cousins as I love them a lot and will love to remain close to them. However, in reality that does not happen, eh.. They would spread their wings and fly..
I never was close to relatives who were older than me. Maybe the gap is bridging now, but then again people have their own lives.
Is it bad to be smart ??? another issue that seems to be bugging my mind over the last few days. When I was in school the more A's you scored, the more friends you sorta had. You are the cool person. But as you get older, people classify you as a N.E.R.D.. if you still keep up with the A's. Well this is in my mind is UTTTER BULLSHIT.. I realised that in order to look cool with the msian society of youngsters, you have to :
1. Club on weekends
2. Be adequately prep'ed with sufficient cash ( from FAMA'S indisposable cash petite)
3. Have popular friends or soon to be "wannabe's"
4. High alcohol tolerance
5. A flashy car wouldn't hurt(obviously this would be provided by FAMA again).. etc etc etc..
Look at it.. just take one good hard look at the list. Ok so where would it take you in life ? In your 20-30's you'd be riding with fun if you're safe on all 5 counts. When you're 30 plus.. does any of that matter anymore ?? It's how much ur cashing in at the end of the month. No FAMA anymore. And that is when the rise of the N.E.R.D.S will began...
remember N.E.R.D.S are like caterpillars. Once they hit they're target they become gorgeously, untouchable butterflies.
Imagine you bump into an A class nerd when you're 37.. He/she is looking fab. An LV bag perhaps.. Gucci shoes.. DKNY dress.. her appearance it self is worth a million bucks. She steps out from a BMW 7 series.. smiles to you and go... hey !! long time no see..what are you up too??
And. all you can say is.. mmm I ve landed with an oh so regular job.. ran out on FAMA cash.. married with 3 kids and looking oh so drained..
Now folks who is having the last laugh :)
I have met many shallow minded people who has passed remarks such as " Oh, you're in Monash.. haha that is where the nerds go. or you still get HD's .. you must be studying 24/7"
All this are just talks of the insecure.. the joke around the ur in monash , u must be a nerd is.. that dude, did not even complete his degree in one go. Repeated and failed many times. Just because he is drinking every weekend and living the "So call cool lifestyle" does not give him the right to even make that comment to anyone.
Well for now, I rather be getting my HD's .. having my usual nights out with my regular crew which i enjoy very much, decent with sense conversations and waiting.. just waiting for the day when I can BITCH SLAP.. all the loosers right to their faces.. Oh, the day will come. I can smell the aroma of it already in the air.
We'll see who has the last laugh then ..WAKAKKAKKA !!
Friday, 25 April 2008
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omg i can't bleieve going to monash and getting HD is classified as a nerd......wtf
is this a malaysian thing?
u're not a nerd hun!!!!! a bit too hot to be a nerd for one thing! nerds don't wear the shoes that u have! =P
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