Where has the romance gone ....

Oh hell no !!

It's SUNDAY .. my beloved weekend has flown by so quick. I wish i could hold on to it and never let it go ( *sob sob* )

Pretty awesome weekend.. threw in some gym clothes shopping (believe me , even gym clothes are expensive), went work-shoe hunting (saw a good one but it s 110 aud.. keluar budget) , threw in a bit of pilates, yoga and weights.. and rediscovered the joy of romance..

Im a romantic individual who goes.. ahhhh whenevr i read mills and boons.. but lately I have given up on it. I view it as WHAT'S THE POINT ? Guys dont appreaciate it at all... has the mills and boons type romance been sucked out from the inhabitants of the twenty first century ??

These days guys dont show, neither do they even try to give women some good old fashion romance that we so desperately want. Its not about buying us an LV bag or gucci wallet.. it s more about the little things like opening a car door, pulling the chair out for us, ordering a meal for us first before your own ( guys have gone GREEDY these days) and so on.. Due to our over diversified lives and high profile careers, couples hardly have time to sit for a proper meal together let alone prepare one for each other. Romance these days takes place in the elevator while riding to work.. maybe in the train.. or the usual .. at a club.. but is this real romance or merely let's do it for the sake of doing it ?

I recently watched this movie called PS: I love you.. i know that sounds lame and to mushy for the average joe but hey... that's what we want.. WOMEN want that kind of love..the never ending, i ll always be with you, though u nag kind ( maybe I should go for an Irish then.. they sing, dance, and write letters ) . It s rare to find a guy who is willing to sit through such a mushy movie with a girl....

At the end of the day it all boils down to how happy and how much you want that person. Maybe family traditions kick in too. Research (acc to Steph et al, 2008) has shown that kids who see their parents being affectionate to one another are drawn to those traits..(see that's hard to come by too if your in an asian fly)

So to all my girlies out there.. YES U DO DERSERVE THE 1950'S STYLE ROMANCE.. afterall the 1950's fashion is back in style ( high waisted skirts etc etc).. and so is the romance.. don't settle for 2nd best.. coz "YOUR WORTH IT"